How to celebrate the holidays during a pandemic when your loved one has dementia.

The holidays are here! Most years, this is a time to reconnect with friends and family; however, due to COVID-19, this holiday season will look different for most people, especially for those at home with Alzheimer's or Dementia. While traditions may have to change to maintain everyone's health and safety, there are still many ways you can make this a special time for your loved one.

Get them involved

By giving your loved one small tasks that they can easily accomplish, you can lend a sense that they are helping with holiday preparations. Have them join in holiday carols or simply listen to music together. Prepare food together. Find holiday-themed arts and crafts you can put up around the house so they can see what they have accomplished and share with other family members.

Use name tags

Due to the virtual nature of this year's holidays, it may be even more difficult for your loved one with dementia to understand the technology and recognize who is speaking. 

Make the holiday easier for them by taking away any name recollection concerns by asking everyone to wear name tags with large writing. This will help your loved one remember people's names and avoid embarrassment or anger.

Prepare your guests

For family and friends who aren't aware of your loved one's health level, prepare them by letting them know what to expect before joining your virtual meeting. You can give them tips on how to best interact with your loved one to avoid any confusion or mixed feelings on both sides. It may also help to provide topics of interest or conversation starters so they can successfully interact with your loved one and create a greater chance for a positive outcome.

Adjust your home 

Lastly, make sure your home is safe for your loved one. Remove holiday clutter or any decorations or items which could be harmful to them. Increase space and make sure you have enough walking areas. It may mean toning down decorations or avoiding blinking lights, but the appropriate environment can ensure you and your loved ones both enjoy the holidays.

COVID-19 may limit how we can connect with family and friends in person during the holidays, but that doesn't mean we can't find ways to be together. By adapting holiday activities and finding new ways to celebrate the season with your loved ones, you can minimize stress and create a pleasant experience for everyone.

If you are looking for a memory care community that can provide specialized care tailored to your loved one's needs, please contact us.

Wishing you and your family a happy holiday season. 

The Calson Team